(08-06-2011, 08:56 AM)Llavilette Wrote: She definintely has SPD. So much to read OMG but all of it clicks... I feel pressure alot of pressure and it is just me because my husband does not get it. He tries but I truly think he does not understand.

I got my work to do but will do it with a happy heart because finally I got my answers.

It has taken my husband a long time to get it and in some ways he's not all the way there yet. *I* bring them to their therapies, I talk to their teachers and the school social worker... But now and then he surprises me with his understanding of the situation and our son. He may not want to label our son with SPD, but he understands that our son has needs that may be different from most other kids. He's seen that we've tried the things other people or what the books say to do, but those things don't work for our son. The OT and therapies work. So that's enough for me for now.

I hope your hubby will come around. It may take a while, but I think when he sees the progress she's making, he'll start to understand more.