Yea how do you live with/have a relationship with someone if you are touch sensitive among other things and how the hell do you explain this to them lol....

I have read about a lot of spd folks who are happily married etc.. how does this happen?

(12-07-2010, 01:55 PM)mawkinberd Wrote: Hi Karen! SPD adult here. I just got my diagnosis in July, and I've primarily been doing research and coping on my own. Luckily, I've found some great advice and information here and elsewhere that has made a big difference for me, particularly in my most difficult situations, like driving. (shiver) Plus, with that understanding, I'm learning to be easier on myself and be less negative. It's been a good journey for me.

Metal music: yes, but in moderation. Cats: Love them! We have a wonderful stray that is very friendly and loving to us, and I'm enjoying getting to know him, even if I do accidently tickle him on the belly! lol Computers: Don't know what I'd do without them! Teaching special ed: You are a brave woman. I wish I had the patience and/or ability to deal. I have so many sensitivities, it's hard for me to deal well with more than two or three people at a time, especially if I'm in charge of them. I'm impressed that you were able to use techniques that your students used to help yourself. I'm glad you gave yourself permission to do that. For a long time, I wouldn't allow myself to do that because I was told not to when I was younger.

Is there anything in particular you would like to know about? Are you struggling with anything currently or looking for a particular bit of info? Feel free to post and look around. There are actually several adult types here with SPD, and most of them are way more knowledgable than I am, having been on the wagon longer. But I'm glad to share the journey with you.

Welcome, and Cheers!