That school does not seem like a good fit for your daughter if they're not willing to accommodate her needs. I hope they'll be willing to make changes once the eval is done. I think ours took 5-6 weeks to be completed, ~15 pages long.

Have you tried looking for an IEP advocate in your area? If you can get an IEP set up, then by law, they have to follow it. Of course, might need to wait for the eval to be done.

I feel so lucky to be in our school. They've been the ones coming to me, saying they want to add more resources or finding new ways to help my son learn and succeed in school. I haven't had to push them for anything.

Please let us know how things are going and when you get the completed evaluation!