Thanks I will look into and IEP advocate someone told me to use something called Spann, which can at least tell me my rights. What makes it so confusing for me is that it is a charter school and it is small only 1 class per grade... I will definitely let you know when I get eval.. OMG 15 pages long whew... this whole thing is a little overwhelming but in a weird way I am happy to finally say this fits my daughter and I am not crazy or a bad parent and she is not spoiled or misbehaved.. I also am sooooooo hurt inside to think that for 6 years of her life she has suffered in a way.. Lot of guilt there but I really did not know. The school will have battle of their lives because those feelings are going to push me to get what she needs no matter what. She will not have another year like the ones before...I will pull her out and homeschool before that happens. I am glad I found this website, can't talk to my friends this way they just nod and sort of give me that wow pity kind of look... ahhhhhhh What I am trying to say is Thank you ladies for even commenting. Really helps.