NP, and everyone with it is different, though it helps to know other peoples coping mechanisms and see if they will help you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFYpdiOaeKs She does a good video on the subject, breaking things down that might help you when you talk to your daughters therapist so they know what she's like. If too like the only way you can go is worse, than doing something is at least trying. That and right now she's probably really frustrated that she's feeling a way that she can't articulate to you. With me I'm an only child, so my mom just learned to understand me but she had no frame of reference for what "normal looks like". She's was a teacher, but she dealt with kids only in the first grade, not babies. I learned quickly how to avoid the things that bother me. XD I also taught her those things so she knew what not to do, because it'd make me upset. So she just didn't do that. Like I never really liked to be dirty or feel sticky, and she'd always be there to clean my hands off. ^_^ She's the best. As an adult I do that on my own lol, but when you're a toddler and baby I mean. Like I was never even one to be ok with being messy when I ate food. I was never the kid who'd put her face into a cake. (As much as my mom wanted that picture, I never gave it to her. lol) So I do think early on there were signs that I was different, but as you get older you learn to cope in a better way. (Just tonight I couldn't open a bottle and gave it to her and she was all -_- yeah I can't open it either now that you put lotion all over it with your hands. XD) Making light of things helps. ^_^