My daughter who is 9 has been diagnosed with SPD since the age of 4. From the outside looking in our life is perfect. She seems like a child who has no issues at all. She doesnt need OT or PT. She makes straight A's in school. She is fine in all social situations. I have so much to be thankful for I know and I am. However to be honest I cry myself to sleep every night. She is able to "hold it together" at school but it is different at home. Her verbal behavior towards me is horrible. From the time she wakes up in the morning until I put her to bed at night she argues and complains. She argues everything no matter the subject. I need advice on where to turn for this. We have tried a counselor, OT, PT. Everyone says she is fine. I promise, she is not. I have other children who are pleasant and kind to me. It is not my parenting. This is taking its toll on my health and my marriage. I know her behavior is a symptom of her SPD. I just dont know how to help her and I dont know who to turn to. I want to love her and her to love me. I want to be able to laugh with my daughter, to have wonderful memeories with her. Any advice is welcome. Thank you for this site, your time and advice.