Thank you LynnNBoys!
I am finding that the more I read and look into learning more about all of this, the less and less I am caring what others think!
I still do not know where to begin as far as methods for coping with all of this within the home. My son will start more thorough OT at preschool and in the home when school resumes on the 1st, however, for the time being I feel like things are getting worse and worse each day! We had a great weekend, but today was atrocious! I'm trying to figure out what is triggering the fits, fights, tantrums, and what not, but still do not have a clear idea at this point. Seems to be something new each and every time, and that's only when I figure anything out at all!
On another note, I understand the bedtime situation. My son is almost four and still pretty much sleeps with me at night. Each time we have tried to break this I have experienced weeks of waking up every two hours to put him back in his bed. Not worth it to me! That, and my husband works graveyard, so I really don't mind it! Oh, and you have to love those that resort to spanking as a form of dealing with children who are clearly frustrated, high-strung, or just not listening!
Thank you again for the happy welcome and your kind words!