Wow this is great, so fantastic to find someone else with these issues (not that I would wish them on anyone else) for a very long time I questioned my parenting, but I always knew something was off then in May this year an OT diagnosed SPD, its very hard as I know no body else in real life who has a child with it, not that they realise anyway, and I feel there has to be a strong genetic link as I would have a lot of the issues but obviously have just got on with it without knowing, and my brother has most definitely got a lot of the same traits and he has been diagnosed with Autism, he is 32 now.

I definitely have an avoider, and Lynn like you have narrowed down meals as its just easier than the battle, but god its boring me to death at this stage. Family life can be tough I only have one diagnosed and the others have smaller sensory issues but nothing that most of us dont have in some form, but so much of our daily living revolves around Eva that its very hard on the others, also am noticing lately that she is trying to turn this to her advantage to get attention and its hard not to react sometimes, my husband feels I should jump at each meltdown but sometimes they are not sensory they are behavour related and she gets dicisplined like every other child here for that. SHe works him though I can see it so clearly!

OK that was quite enough rambling from me!!