(07-17-2012, 10:13 AM)heatherv112506 Wrote: Hello LAC1961!

I am currently going through this in a way with my 4 year old. She is a avoider/hyposensitive. She is potty trained during the day, but my struggle is at night.

My suggestion which is what I had to do with my little girl, is, gradually take the pull ups away. Start with having her wear them like usually. But while you have her wearing them, remind her to go potty every 15 to 20 minutes, then, after so long, start having her wear big girl panties for portions of the day and do the same thing with reminding her every so often to go.

The suggestion that the OT had for you about putting panties under the pull up is a great idea, I had done that one with my daughter too, however, she didn't take to it. I do know of some friends who have done this with their children and have had success.

Take a deep breathe and hang in there. You are doing the best you can with what you are working with. It is hard, especially if the child is showing no signs or is willing to want to train. My daughter was almost a few months shy of 4 before we got her potty trained during the day time. Give yourself and her some time to recover from that last go around.

I hope you can find something that works We are here for ya rooting you and her on <3