Thank you Stacy. I'm happy to read your son is independent with personal grooming. That is one of my fears. Will he become more independent? I'm a little embarrassed to say this. I have to clean him after a bowl movement with baby wipes. he tries but can't quite acomplish it without my assistance. My friends say "well he's a boy and he's only 6." Which I understand. I wonder and worry about him and how I can help him do more for himself. Some movements are difficult for him and he knows this. He use to be last getting off the school bus. Now he's one of the 1rst. He still moves cautiously down the steps and last time he paused for a moment. A child behind him yelled "Move!" It didnt phase him or perhaps he didn't hear her as he was focussed on the steps and went down. He ran to me and gave me a hello Mama hug with his usual vigor. I thought it best not to talk about it with him as he seemed to not pay the girl any mind. Its rough not knowing if my insticts are right when it comes to situations such as this. I'm so happy to be here where I can discuss these things with others who understand.