Hey. I can understand the struggle, My younger sister has days like that as well. It takes a toll on our mother as well. I have witnessed it many times when she had those bad days when she is in pain and anxious and it is just so hard to keep her calm and actually make her focus on something positive. We have talked to many doctors and one of them suggested we try giving her medical marijuana since the medication in the dosages that actually helped her was close to toxic. It was a fairly agonizing decision for my parents and I because you have to understand that it is not easy to agree to give your child drugs (even recreational ones) but they were desperate and agreed to anything. We talked to some of the people who had prior experience with it and they suggested we try edibles. We ordered them from this one website that you guys can check here: https://www.koalitymedicinals.com/. I have to say that it really helped my sister. It calmed her down and it made out everyday life easier. I hope that everything works out with you and your family.