Marci, no worries, you weren't being cruel. My family (extened) doesn't really seem to get it with her. They always compare her to her older sister who also has SPD who was able to handle parties and such. I have already put it out there that I'm not having a lot of people in hopes they will get the hint. I've got it limited to the people she is comfortable with and thats it. Unfortunately there are alot of people in the family she isn't comfortable with. I see it as it's her party, not mine or anyone else and what makes her happy and comfortable is what is going to be done.

But beings you haven't heard of Bubble Guppies, it's a very cute show and nick jr. She loves it! It's very colorful and she loves the music. It really is a great kids show. My 4 & 6 1/2 year old loves it too