Hello everyone!

My name is Tiffany, and I am new to pretty much everything. My son (Brendan) was just diagnosed with SPD, yesterday afternoon. We have been seeing specialist since June, and after months and months of testing, this was the result, along with Anxiety and OCD. He will be three on December 2nd. From the time he was born, He never wanted to be held, loved on, snuggled, swaddled, swung, nothing. I just thought he just wasn't as lovable as my daughter was. When he was 1, and really started talking, he started saying ouch and would just scream if we suddenly touched him. He is currently in Daycare, and his teacher is GREAT with him, and noticed that he plays alone, or is ok playing with kids as long as they are close, but not too close.
Long story short, that's what it is. They also informed me yesterday that his gross motor skills are very very very behind, which they say is common for kids with SPD. His developmental skills are a few months behind as well. I was hysterical, but knew it was coming when his doctor mentioned it, earlier. I googled it and he has MOST of the systems. So now offf I go to learn. I do have a few questions so off I go to find the question area on here.....