It seems hard to believe they didn't diagnose SPD based on that report. Here is a link to a checklist for SPD from sensationalbrain.com:
http://www.sensationalbrain.com/pdf/SB-s...cklist.pdf (sensationalbrain.com is one of my favorite websites)
The three top books I've read since my daughter was diagnosed in July are:
The Out of Sync Child by Kranowicz
Sensational Kids by Miller
Growing an In-Sync Child by Kranowicz and Newman
Each of them approach SPD from a different view point, ie. diagnosis, treatment, home care.
There are many excellent resources online that I have found. I've found much encouragement from spdbloggernetwork.com.
I've found the following list of 99 great sensory activites for any child at:
http://mommypoppins.com/ny-kids/99-senso...-any-child
Also love the following ideas found at this site:
http://spdsupport.org/articles/20-keep-it-simple.shtml
And last, but not least, as Heather mentioned, heavy lifting, is integral to keeping SPD kids from getting out of hand.
Hope this helps, and welcome! Finding a site where we all understand what each other are talking about is often what keeps me from crying myself to sleep.