Trial and error, you will be taking a lot of deep breaths! If you can find a teacher or school that understands it makes a world of difference. SOme (a lot) of teachers do not want to be bothered by kids that are going to cause disruption, they think they teach regualr ed and that is it! Well unfortunately that is not how it is anymore, everyone has such different learning styles and learning disorders teachers need to make accomidations for everyone. BUt anyway..... if she like lschool, doesn't come home frustrated, having meltdowns, etc.. then someone is doing something right. You need to follow her cues, if she comes home frusturated, doesn't want to go to school, her behaviors change dramatically for the worst then I say there is something going on.