Thanks! It will come!!!!! I have witnessed it! When I went to his school for his Christmas program the aid he eats lunch with told me that he tells her a lot when he doesn't like something. I was telling her about what had happened and she said when he first started coming to eat with her that he would pull away if she walked past him and touched him on his shoulder, now she said he doesn't mind, but he has told her I just don't like to be touched! She also said that she looks forward to him eating with her, that he is very enlightening, holds a mature conversation with her, he is very up beat never has a negative thing to say. ( I am sure she probably knows everything that goes on at home! ahahahahahahah) It was great to hear, we started off the school year horribly, he has finally adjusted and seems to be having a much better time. It took a few months, but he has got it. ( now if there was no summer break and the pattern wouldn't be broke! lol) So, as I knock on wood as I write all this so he keeps it up!!!